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friends, the birthday person, hosting, money. if it isn't here, it's probably on how it works.

the basics

  • what is birthdayland?

    a birthday website your friends fill together. everyone leaves a card (a note, doodles, photos, a video, a selfie), and on the day each friend is a little character on a 3d island the birthday person walks around. there's a scrapbook board of every card and a festival of 12 mini-games too.

  • who is it for?

    friend groups, partners, siblings, long-distance people and anyone with a milestone coming up: the 18th, the 21st, the 30th. it's made for teens and adults, not for kids under 13.

  • can i see one first?

    yes. the demo island is a finished site for a made-up friend called sam. walk around, read the cards, play the games. it's look-only, so nothing you do there sticks.

  • when can i start one?

    very soon. we're taping the last bits down. no waitlist, no email list: come back and the start button will be live.

for the friends

  • do friends need an account?

    no. they open the link, leave a card and they're done. only the host signs in.

  • what can friends leave?

    a note (up to 1,500 characters), marker doodles, photos and a video (film up to 30 seconds in the browser, or upload one up to a minute), plus a selfie so their blob has a face. up to 12 photos, doodles and videos per card.

  • can a friend change their card later?

    yes, from the same phone or laptop they made it on. the card remembers the browser that stuck it.

  • does it work on phones?

    yes. leaving a card, the board and the island all work on a phone, with touch controls on the island.

  • do friends show up in the games?

    once three or more friends have left cards, yes: they become the rival in the dance-off, the crowd at karaoke, the friends behind the fence at the water-balloon toss, and the blobs you must never bonk in whack-a-gnome. with four or more notes in, karaoke even sings lines from their messages.

the birthday person

  • what does the birthday person actually do?

    three things, in any order: read every card on the board, walk the island and hug each friend (their doodles fly, their message types out, a candle lights on the cake), and play the 12 festival games.

  • do they need to be good at games?

    not at all. arrow keys or WASD on a laptop, big touch buttons on a phone. most rounds take about a minute (the longest is 90 seconds), and nobody loses anything. if motion is too much, the whole site respects reduced motion and has a calmer mode.

  • when do they see it?

    whenever you send them the link. a surprise reveal that opens it at midnight in their time zone is coming to the Party plan.

  • is there sound?

    an original little soundtrack, made in code. it stays off until they tap it on, and there's a mute everywhere.

for the host

  • can i hide a card?

    yes. you can hide or delete any card before they see it, one at a time or in bulk.

  • who can see the site?

    anyone you give the link to. birthday sites are unlisted: they're kept out of search engines, and only the storefront you're reading now is meant to be found.

  • how long does it stay up?

    on Sketch, 30 days after the birthday. on Party, it takes cards for a year and then stays up as a read-only archive. Milestone keeps it open two years, then archives it.

  • can i download everything?

    yes, on Party and up: every card and video in one zip.

money

  • how much is it?

    Sketch free, Party $19, Milestone $39. one payment per birthday site. Sketch takes 5 friends' cards; Party takes 50 and opens every game.

  • is it a subscription?

    no. you pay once per celebration and that's it.

  • do friends pay anything?

    never. friends always join free.

  • can i upgrade later?

    yes, and you only pay the difference: Party to Milestone is $20.

  • can you make a custom look?

    a theme made by hand for one person is possible. it isn't sold at checkout; write to k.bowen.liu@gmail.com.

still wondering? the demo island answers most things in about a minute.